Happy New Year Everyone!!!!!!
Again we've been lame at writing but busy lives get in the way. Anyway here's something to chat about......last night we have two of our greatest friends for dinner. G has known Tina in her male form for years and yearsand S is his girlfriend. Both two of the loveliest, nicest people you could ever wish to meet and this is what happens........
We were part way through our dinner when G announced that they'd seen a 'right weird programme' on tele the night before consisting of tranniesand their wives......(at this point Tina and I were inwardly choking on our fajita's...anyway).....to which led a whole conversation on how unfathomable it was and how those people are weird and desperate.....needless to say they don't know about tina
later on when we happened to flick on the programme and they were like 'this is it this is it' so we finished watching it with them. wow!!!!! some of their comments made me giggle inside, others, needless to say, didn't have the same effect. tina will agree i'm sure when i say that i'm pretty protective of her feelings, i'm quite willing to openly stand my ground and stand up for her and am quite happy to put people, whoever they may be, in their place but what could i do?????
listening to them openly say how weird that lifestyle was and how it's wrong, that there are deeper psychological issues at play i didn't get wound up i just felt a bit sad, and pretty worried that tina would be upset by what they had said.
haha how funny it would be though if they now found out about tina, there was me sat there being all riled up and saying that i'd definitely go out with a tranny and that it was amazingly cool whilst they looked at me opened mouthed and whilst stud was burning daggers into my soul because i wouldn't shut up! i mean how mortified would they be if they now found out that one of their closest friends is a tranny and that his girlfriend quite happily shags him while he's dressed as a woman??!!!!!!!!
I know for a fact that should they ever find out nothing would change in our relationship with them, G would get on with it and probably think it was cool once the shock had worn off and S would give me a look of dismay before giggling and feeling very guilty that she'd behaved so inappropriately when we watched 'that tranny programme' and that's the point i guess.......
my conclusions one might say, are that what people think before something happens and then how they behave after it are two completely different things. they'd never not be friends with us because for all sense and purposes we're still the same people. when others understand that the person they love was a tranny when they fell in love with them and that nothing in their being has changed and they're never going to change why would anyone not want to still love you? i think i'm probably being naive and that there are a million people out there who wouldn't think quite so laterally but seriously those people do not have enough adequate brain cells to think laterally and those are the people in the world who, by darwin's process of 'natural selection', we want to weed out!
Sunday, 13 January 2008
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